Out of the mouths of babes

When the kids were little and they said something profound , matter of factly or remarkably wise my mother would ” out of the mouths of babes”.

and she was right!

Daughter #2 and I were talking and she had said she saw an “ad” on Black Friday for an animal shelter offering cats and kittens buy one get one 1/2 off, she was really ticked to say the least  and said “animals are not a product to put on sale like tvs and groceries, how can the offer a sale like that?” I completely agreed!

Daughter #3 heard someone say this past summer something about gay pride and the pride parade in Toronto, something about how they disagreed with it, thought it was gross, she piped up and said simply “if you don’t like it don’t go”, she like myself have zero tolerance for any kind of discrimination of any kind. Once again completely agreed!

Daughter #2 mentioned that some of the teachers at her school were obviously unhappy about their jobs…one in particular, he centers out kids in class, is rude and seems generally unhappy, she feels its “time for him to retire as there are many new teachers looking for work that really want to teach and would make a big difference in the learning experience of the kids and maybe they would be a little happier wanting to go to school in a positive learning environment.Did I mention this is a class that she cuts quite frequently….. Again agreed!

last but not least  😀

There are anti bullying ads all over the place, it is taught in school, how to deal with bullies, what to do if someone is being bullied etc.  #1,2 and 3 have all been bullied as many kids have been , that being said I am also sure that #1,2 and 3 have probably been bullies at one point or another again as many kids have been.  One of the girls is having difficulty at school, there is a small group of 3 sometimes 4 girls that are not only centering her out but others as well. Centering one girl out in the hallway in front of many onlookers and making her cry after revealing a secret she had told one of them when they had been friends.  She walks into to class and has all 3 sometimes 4 stare her down and start whispering, nasty remarks and cheap shots on twitter, Facebook and via text, which are quickly deleted….I know I would not want to go to school or work under those conditions.   None of these girls will go into the office to speak to a guidance counsellor of principle , nothing is usually done either unfortunately, the fear is that if they say anything the bullying will get worse!  I was reminded when I suggested speaking to the guidance counsellor that ” We are not in public school anymore and they won’t do anything anyway!”  I  hear these stories all the time, I think its very sad and discouraging.  So many people are working to stop bullying and really not much has changed.  I have spoken with other parents about bullying and the feeling is the same “nothing is ever done, teachers hands are tied”.

I’m a still thinking about the best way to help her with this….

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Saturdays, kids and beers!

Yet another weekend, it’s a long-weekend for us in Canada eh 😀

(that was for my witty me and the boss pal)

It’s Family Day on Monday here in Ontariario 😀 .

(and many other provinces and countries)

It’s also a statutory holiday so I get paid for staying home, BONUS!! THis holiday was started here in Canada in 2008, to help break up this lovely month of February and bring families together!

The weekend has started off quite well, the girls had a dance to go to last night and this morning when I woke up there were 4 girls in one bed and one who has crashed on the couch.  They didn’t go to sleep until 5:30 this morning!!!!  They were very quiet, but did have a little dance party in the basement and video taped it I really wish I could post this video I have never seen anything quite so entertaining and yet disturbing at the same time 😀

They also put makeup on one of the girls that had fallen asleep first again soooo funny, they put huge caterpillar eyebrows on her, blue eye makeup and huge red lips…they took photos as well but according to the rules placed upon me….  again I am not allowed to post them.

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She looked like this but much, much worse and of course was fast asleep Hi Larry E US!!!!

I’m doing the usual weekend thing, laundry, vacuuming and I’m purging things from my bedroom which seems to be the “dumping” zone these days.  Have I ever mentioned that I hate clutter!!!

I hear the girls upstairs making breakfast oh joy , pancakes and bacon are probably on their menu, also entertaining to watch 4 teenagers and 1 tween cooking together not to mention the mess!!!!

I think I’ll hangout in the basement or shall I say the “family room”  for a little longer….it’s beautiful and sunny here today very cold still but is supposed to warm up, I think I may work on my tan later dig out a lawn chair and stock my Canadian cooler with some bevies and enjoy the afternoon.

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On Monday Family Day we’re  hoping to go skating in Huntsville on an outdoor “ice trail”.

Click on this nifty little link to see what I’m jabbering on about 😀

Ice Trail

Hope everyone has a wonderful Saturday eh 😀

Laugh loudly, Love generously, Care deeply, Speak kindly